custard":2u0zgpp1 said:
lurker":2u0zgpp1 said:
Moderators s please shut this down.
People who I had previously considered to be nice are full of bile and hatred and I don't want to know about that side of them.
Apparently this is currently happening on many forums and in many social groups. People that had happily chatted for years are suddenly drawing In/Out battle lines. I heard this morning that a local Scrabble group has now split into a Remain Scrabble group and an Exit Scrabble group, I don't know whether to regard that as amusingly silly or absolutely terrifying? In much of life we manage to confine our associations to fairly like minded people, it's sad in a way because all we ever hear in that echo chamber is our own beliefs fed back to us, however it does make for a peaceful existence. Move out of those groups and the unwritten rule is "don't talk about politics or religion", so we chat about the weather and rub along without incident.
But this is all so raw and acrimonious, it's something few of us are really used to and we haven't worked out any social rules yet.
Be nice to think it'll soon blow over, but something tells me it'll take a long time before this one cools off. There are such massive expectations on the leave side for a change that I'm convinced will simply never happen, when that realisation hits home their anger will be incandescent. While on the remain side every economic and social set back will get furiously blamed on the leave vote. Rather than calming down this could stay boiling and seething for years to come.
I couldn't agree more. This was just the most binary and divisive situation. Personally, I think (hope) that by venting these opinions, by avoiding the cut of the censorial knife, we will, in some cathartic way, come to realise that we have more that unite than divide us. We were all "woodworkers" before the referendum and that community includes Americans, Finnish, Scots, irish, Canadians, South Africans etc. I think when the anger, disappointment, soreness has abated, we will once again be woodworkers and we can put this behind us. People generally behave with good intentions in mind but do that without all the facts. I think during the run up to this referendum both sides of the debate have been starved of facts and have had instead to make do with the usual spin and rhetoric from politicians and the media. Just think about that, how much of what influences our opinions is fed to us from sources where an agenda is driving the message. We take that message as gospel at our peril!
One of the things I've always liked about working with a natural material like wood is that it removes the subject from the equation. "Opinion" won't help plane twisted grain in a piece of curly maple, only skill and experience comes to the rescue in that situation. These are the things that we discuss here with enthusiasm, relish and by pooling our collective knowledge, solve the problems. Those noble goals transcend politics, borders, colour, race and religion because they challenge us all in the same way and in so doing unite our endeavour.
I don't doubt we will return to that after some time when the rawness of this unique set of circumstances has had time dull it's edge.
But while it is still raw, it just seems inappropriate to me to censor the views and opinions across the political spectrum by locking this thread. I will appeal to all to keep the comments away from personal insults because they really don't help and just injure the publisher. But I have faith and it really is nothing more than a sort of blind confidence that this community of people, from all walks of life, will find a way back to civil discussion about wood again. Actually, it's not that blind, it comes from direct experience of seeing post after post, thread after thread of folk helping each other out. When their partners have critical illness, when they're short of a "bit of ebony", when they need a manual for the Wadkin "iron lump" from 1937. Underneath the soreness of the recent seismic political shifts are a bunch of genuinely decent human beings, and their true colours will return in due course. Of that I'm quite sure, because that's what their real identity is....not the angry person we see at the moment.
So I think this thread should be allowed to run it's course while each has something to say. Freedom of speech at this time seems important. Moving beyond the schism is desirable and I don't really know why I'm quietly confident we'll get there....I just am.