It's really quite a sad storey. Forgetting that he tried to kill her, to get divorced at age 60+ is a tradgic thing to happen.
I'm 46 now and wifey is 48. Been together for 28 yrs. Still working hard to make ends meet. The mortgage still crippling our bank balence. No holiday for last 5 yrs. Our son still at home but full time uni and part time working. Snatching whatever spare time I can to 'play' in the workshop or work at SWMBO's wish-list.
At 61 I would be looking foreward to retiring (not resting!!), the end of my mortgage, my son off my hands (don't mean that nastily!!), some quality time with the wife, maybe that luxury holiday we always promised ourselves, visiting my son's family on Sunday to see the Grandchildren (WITH MY WIFE!!). In short, reaping the reward of 60 yrs graft (inc schooling).
A divorce then would be devastating. Both financially AND emotionally.
I don't know how I would react. Though I'd hope I wouldn't do something that drastic.
Roy