Thanks for the post - interesting. However, without intending to get into an ongoing discussion, just a few points.
Any manufacturer is going to recommend the use of it's own undercoat/primer - why give the money to someone else?
When you use dilute PVA, you're only slowing the moisture absorbtion, you're not trying to create a waterproof skin. If the PVA softens, so what?
Even if there was a waterproof layer, it's perfectly possible to tile over smoother, more impervious surfaces than that.
A quick google on other sites - every time someone says no way should you use PVA, someone else says you should. I've worked with tilers and decorators over the years that have never used any other than PVA - the only problems I've seen is a surface hasn't been primed with anything at all, and tiles have dropped off a year or two later.